Navigating the Heart-Wrenching Decision of Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID)

Deciding whether to proceed with Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID) is one of the most profound and personal choices a person can face. If you or a loved one are considering MAID, you may be experiencing a whirlwind of emotions—uncertainty, grief, relief, fear, and even guilt. This journey is deeply personal, and there is no “right” or “wrong” way to feel about it.

The Emotional Weight of the Decision

Choosing MAID is not simply about making a medical decision—it is about confronting the realities of suffering, dignity, and what it means to have control over one’s final moments. People who consider MAID often struggle with:

• Loss of autonomy – The feeling that illness has taken away control over their own body and life.

• Pain and suffering – The physical and emotional toll of a terminal illness can be overwhelming.

• The impact on loved ones – Worrying about how family and friends will cope with their decision.

• Spiritual and moral questions – Grappling with personal beliefs about life, death, and what comes after.

• The fear of the unknown – Wondering what the process will feel like, both for themselves and those they love.

These emotions are entirely valid, and it is normal to feel conflicted even if you believe MAID is the best choice for you.

Conversations with Loved Ones

One of the hardest parts of considering MAID is talking to the people closest to you. Some may be supportive, while others may struggle to accept the idea. These discussions can bring up strong emotions, but they are important for ensuring that you feel heard and understood.

Here are some ways to navigate these conversations:

• Be honest and open – Share your thoughts and feelings with your loved ones.

• Give them time – Your decision may come as a shock, and they may need time to process it.

• Set boundaries – If someone reacts negatively, it is okay to limit the conversation to protect your emotional well-being.

• Seek professional support – A counsellor can help mediate difficult discussions and provide guidance.

The Role of MAID Counselling

No one should have to navigate this journey alone. MAID counselling offers a safe and supportive space to explore your emotions, address your fears, and find clarity in your decision. A counsellor can help you:

• Process your feelings without judgment.

• Understand what to expect if you proceed with MAID.

• Support your loved ones through their own emotions.

• Ensure that your decision aligns with your personal values and wishes.

You Are Not Alone

If you are struggling with the decision to pursue MAID, compassionate support is available. You deserve to have your feelings acknowledged and your choices respected.

Jeanette Leroux offers MAID counselling to provide a non-judgmental, caring space where you can explore your options with guidance and understanding. Whether you need emotional support, help navigating conversations with family, or someone to simply listen, you do not have to face this alone.

To learn more about MAID counselling with Jeanette Leroux, reach out today. You deserve support as you navigate this deeply personal decision.