Why Personality Disorders are Hard to Treat
Personality disorders are some of the toughest mental health problems to treat. These disorders involve long-lasting patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving that are very different from what most people expect. These patterns affect many parts of a person’s life and are hard to change.
Reasons Treatment is Challenging
Deep-Rooted Patterns: Personality disorders start early, often in childhood or teenage years, and become deeply ingrained over time. This means that the ways of thinking and behaving are firmly established and feel natural to the person, making them difficult to alter. Changing these patterns requires a lot of time and effort, similar to trying to break a habit that has been part of one’s life for many years.
Lack of Insight: Many people with personality disorders don’t realize they have a problem. This lack of self-awareness makes them resistant to treatment because they don’t see the need for change. They might think their behavior is normal and that the problems they experience are due to others. Without recognizing that their thoughts and actions contribute to their difficulties, it’s hard for them to engage fully in therapy.
Interpersonal Difficulties: These disorders cause significant problems in relationships. People with personality disorders often struggle with trust, communication, and emotional regulation, which can make it difficult for them to form a strong, trusting relationship with a therapist. This is crucial because a good therapeutic relationship is the foundation for effective treatment. Without it, progress in therapy can be slow or nonexistent.
Comorbid Conditions: Personality disorders often occur alongside other mental health issues like depression, anxiety, or substance abuse. These additional conditions add layers of complexity to treatment because they need to be addressed simultaneously. For example, someone with both a personality disorder and substance abuse might use substances to cope with their emotional pain, complicating efforts to treat the underlying personality disorder.
There Is HOPE
Key Elements of Effective Therapy:
Strong Therapeutic Alliance: Building trust and a positive relationship between the therapist and the client is essential for successful therapy.
Consistency and Structure: Regular, structured therapy sessions provide a stable environment for working on issues.
Skills Training: Teaching practical skills for managing emotions, improving relationships, and coping with stress is crucial.
Long-Term Commitment: Effective treatment of personality disorders often requires long-term therapy, sometimes for several years.
With the right combination of the key elements, meaningful change IS possible. One of our therapists, Sandra Graham, focuses on personality disorders – working both with those who have personality disorders and family members of those with personality disorders.
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